[One Day One] The Light You Leave On

A light left on in the window is a small thing. It does not shorten the road or remove the rain. It simply tells the person approaching that someone expected them to arrive.

We offer this kind of light in more ways than we realize. It appears in a message that says there is no rush to answer. It appears when we remember how someone takes their coffee, save them a seat, or make room for a story we have heard before. None of these gestures solves a dramatic problem. They make arrival easier.

Most people carry some uncertainty into every room. They wonder whether they are interrupting, whether they belong, or whether they will need to earn their welcome. A little warmth can quiet that question before it is ever spoken.

You do not need endless energy to be a welcoming person. You do not have to become available to everyone at all times. Healthy welcome includes boundaries. It can be specific, modest, and honest.

Think about one person who may be moving through a difficult or lonely stretch. What simple signal could you offer? Perhaps it is an invitation without pressure, a note of encouragement, or a few minutes of full attention.

The gesture may feel ordinary from your side. From the road, it can look like a light in the window.

Today’s Prompt

What small sign of welcome can you leave for someone today?

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About Dan Mickle

Dan Mickle founded Soul Performance Academy and has been a coach for over 30 years. He holds an M.S. in Sports/Performance Psychology and an M.S. in Learning Technology and Media Systems. Dan is a current NCAA DIII head volleyball coach. He is pursuing his D.H.Sc, focusing on the coaching considerations of neurodivergent populations. He is an Associate Member of the APA, a certified CBT coach, and a certified Mental Trainer.