[One Day One] Use the Good Towel

Many homes contain an unofficial museum. There are towels nobody uses, dishes reserved for company, candles kept unlit, notebooks too beautiful to write in, and clothes waiting for an occasion worthy of them.

We save the good things because we want to protect them. That makes sense until protection slowly becomes permanent storage.

The special occasion stays somewhere in the future, and the object meant to add beauty to life never gets to participate in one. The candle gathers dust. The notebook remains perfect and empty. The shirt eventually stops fitting. We preserved the possibility so carefully that we missed the experience.

This habit is not limited to objects. We save kind words, vacation days, creative ideas, and phone calls for the right moment. We postpone small joys until the work is finished, the house is ready, or life finally feels settled.

Maybe ordinary life is the occasion.

Use the good mug on a quiet morning. Write the grocery list on the first page of the beautiful notebook. Wear the thing you like even if nobody important will see it. Tell someone what they mean to you before a ceremony gives you permission.

The value of a good thing is not measured by how long it remains untouched. It is measured by what it adds while it is here.

Today is allowed to receive something you have been saving.

Today’s Prompt

What good thing have you been saving, and how could you let it become part of your ordinary life?

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About Dan Mickle

Dan Mickle founded Soul Performance Academy and has been a coach for over 30 years. He holds an M.S. in Sports/Performance Psychology and an M.S. in Learning Technology and Media Systems. Dan is a current NCAA DIII head volleyball coach. He is pursuing his D.H.Sc, focusing on the coaching considerations of neurodivergent populations. He is an Associate Member of the APA, a certified CBT coach, and a certified Mental Trainer.