[One Day One] Stop Carrying the Whole Day

A whole day can feel heavy before it even begins. We wake up and immediately lift every meeting, deadline, conversation, errand, and uncertainty at once. By breakfast, we are mentally carrying hours that have not happened yet.

No wonder we feel tired.

The mind is capable of traveling far ahead. It can rehearse the afternoon conversation while we brush our teeth and worry about the evening responsibility while we are still making coffee. This ability can help us prepare, but it can also turn a series of manageable moments into one enormous object.

You are not required to carry the whole day at once.

Carry the next hour. If that is too much, carry the next ten minutes. Make the breakfast. Find the keys. Open the first email. Listen to the person in front of you. When the next part arrives, you can meet it with the version of you who has already made it that far.

This is not pretending the later responsibilities do not exist. You can write them down, prepare what needs preparation, and make a plan. Then you can place them somewhere other than the center of the current moment.

A day is not experienced all at once. It comes one piece at a time, even when our thoughts try to deliver it in a pile.

Set down what has not arrived. Your hands are needed here.

Today’s Prompt

What part of today are you carrying too early, and what deserves your attention right now?

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About Dan Mickle

Dan Mickle founded Soul Performance Academy and has been a coach for over 30 years. He holds an M.S. in Sports/Performance Psychology and an M.S. in Learning Technology and Media Systems. Dan is a current NCAA DIII head volleyball coach. He is pursuing his D.H.Sc, focusing on the coaching considerations of neurodivergent populations. He is an Associate Member of the APA, a certified CBT coach, and a certified Mental Trainer.